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For The Ladies: Turning on a Man

9/13/2015

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           The following is an excerpt from my book, Finding the Right Man.   Even though I'm known for my self-help books for men, the piece that got me started was a pamphlet called Finding a Good Man.   That 12 page  homemade booklet took me a long way and eventually led to my books for men.    Around 2003, I wrote Finding the Right Man.   It was written from the point of view of how men respond to women in the real world.   Most books by men addressed to women cater to the romantic illusions of women which turns out to be counter-productive.   I mean, really, has the 90 day rule promoted by a a certain old school player comedian actually worked for women?   

     So here's an excerpt from Finding the Right Man.    It's a thank you for many of the women who have supported my work over the years.



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           I will now discuss the secrets to generating sexual chemistry with a man.  Men are moved to great heights when stimulated by sex.  Many people consider men to be sex-obsessed but then do not ask why they are this way.  Men who are truly successful in life have one thing in common: they have found a constructive use for their sex drive.  A woman’s ability to arouse a man is the key to this sex drive.  The woman who can keep her man aroused will have two things.  One, a man who will have the drive to succeed in any chosen endeavor. Two, she will have a man predisposed to being monogamous.  The biggest single reason men fool around is for sex.  Two of the best ways to keep a man from cheating is to keep him aroused and focused on a project.

            The whole sex thing isn’t just about pleasing a man anyway.   Too many women don’t enjoy sex for it’s own sake.  Too many see it as an obligation.  Even many women who do enjoy sex are not satisfied because the men are not fulfilling their needs.    What follows are the keys to developing sexual chemistry with a man.    When a woman can truly arouse a man she not only satisfies him but she will find that he will be more motivated to satisfy her needs.

             Keys to Sexual Chemistry

            A.    Physical appearance
         
             A key component to generating sexual chemistry with a man is physical appearance.  A man’s nature is to be attracted to a woman based on her physical appearance.   No amount of intellectualism or political correctness will change this.   The Creator made us this way for a reason.   Now a mature man will also check out a woman’s emotional and spiritual traits but this will generally occur after he gets past the initial physical attraction.   The physical is what draws a man to a woman.  You can be the most sweetest, loving, loyal woman in the world and the man will not be inclined to find out about your personality if he doesn’t think you have a nice body.   Even if somehow you do meet, if he doesn’t find you physically attractive you will be in the “Friend” category. 


            The key to a woman developing her physical appearance is to engage in some type of exercise program, particularly programs which will tone her muscles and also keep access fat off her stomach.   Fat around the stomach area is key.   The ideal shape for a woman is an hourglass figure.   There should a contrast between the breasts, the waists and the hips.   For example, Suzanne is a woman who is 5’10” and 200 pounds yet men fall all over themselves to be with her.   The reason is that despite her weight she has a relatively small waist and flat stomach.  It’s the SHAPE that’s most important.   I know many woman get caught into trying to be a size 6 or below but the reality is that it’s not genetically possible for all women to be that size or even desirable for many men.   There are many men who prefer women who are size 12 and up.  The key is the shape and not the clothes size.  

            In addition to exercises which deal with access weight around the stomach, a woman may want to spend time working on exercises which strengthen and tone her legs and butt.   Even though there seems to be an emphasis on a woman’s breasts in the media many men are attracted to a nice booty and legs.   

            Ultimately you want to be in the best shape possible.   This will do more to attract a man than degrees or material possessions.

            B. Clothing
      
            A woman can have a body that will put a man into a trance and cause a few accidents but it would be irrelevant if she covers it too much or doesn’t wear clothes that enhance her figure.  There are two considerations with the clothes a woman wears.  One, does the clothing enhance her physical appearance and two, are the clothes feminine?

            Once the woman has improved her physical appearance the clothing she chooses to wear will either shield that appearance or magnify it.  For example, Charlene despite having a “coke bottle” figure wears very loose clothing that effectively hides her body.   So when men see her they are not inclined to approach her regardless of her signals because they don’t see her figure and thus are not aroused.   She isn’t able to generate sexual chemistry with them.

            On the other hand Kyra has the same type of figure but she doesn’t have a problem generating sexual chemistry because she will wear tight tops, shorter than average skirts, and four-inch pumps.  Even in business attire she will dress provocatively.  As a result men fall over themselves to talk with her. 

            In the two examples above the women are wearing clothes which project two aspects of femininity: maternal and sensual.   One issue I’m seeing more and more is women dressing like men.   It’s very important that a woman looking for the Right Man doesn’t dress like one.   If she has a “coke bottle” figure but wears clothes like a man she is not going to generate sexual chemistry with the men in her environment.  

            The key to understanding with clothes is that they magnify a person’s body.    It’s very important that women are cognizant of how they choose and wear their clothing.    Using the examples from above, Charlene is in a sense neutralizing her physical appearance by covering up her body.   The average man will view her as a friend.  Kyra on the other hand is over-magnifying her body.   The average man will see her as a sex partner.  The key once again is balance.

            The clothing women wear should strike a balance between sensual and maternal.  A woman wants to dress sensual enough to draw the man’s attention.   Instead of four inch pumps maybe one-inch pumps. Instead of a real short mini skirt maybe a skirt that stops maybe an inch above the knees.   Trust me, this will still get the man’s attention but at the same time he will not be as focused on simply physical gratification.   He will be more amenable to the woman’s emotional/spiritual traits.

             C. Attitude            

             We’ve all seen women who have great bodies and have something going on mentally.  Yet these women still have problems finding the Right Man and generating sexual chemistry.  For example, Susan has a great body and is very intelligent.   Men usually see her initially as a sex partner and then as a friend if they feel like dealing with her.   She’s never a Ms. Right despite what she has going for her.   The problem is that she has a poor attitude towards men.    She is very defensive towards men which shows in her tone of voice and body language.   Despite an initial attraction men are turned off by her mannerisms. 

            A woman’s attitude toward men is very important in generating sexual chemistry.   In a nutshell she needs to like men.  Many women despite wanting a man do not like men.    Many women are defensive as a result.    If a man approaches them their defensiveness will turn the man off.  Many men will not even approach.   

            Ladies, here’s a powerful secret in attracting the right man to you:  practice being receptive.    One of the biggest reasons why many women are not approached by men is that they are simply too defensive.  Some defensiveness is necessary as a protection against some of the less evolved men out there.  Sometimes though women are defensive in friendlier environments which may cause them to lose out on a good man because their body language tells a man to stay away.

            Even when the man and woman have sex a receptive attitude is needed.   If the woman is defensive she will not enjoy sex with the man.   During sex the woman is receiving from the man.   Her actions during sex should reflect this.   She should be like a placid lake that is being stirred by a storm.   She should allow the man to stir her up.   If she is defensive he will not be able to do his job and as a result she will tend to build up tension that will not be released by an orgasm.   One of the biggest reasons women don’t have orgasms is that they are too defensive as a result of their attitudes towards men.

            A woman looking for the Right Man needs to examine her attitude towards men.  A poor attitude will lead to poor sexual chemistry.



         

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Unrealistic Romantic Expectations

10/12/2014

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            So I’m bopping along in a Barnes and Noble with my sons doing what we usually do, looking at books and magazines.   We had already been to the local comic book store where I didn’t see anything I wanted.   As an aside for those who don’t know I’m a big comic book fan.  Too bad there isn’t much out there that catches my attention.   That’s another blog in a separate section of my website.   Anyway while I’m walking around I pause a little bit in the romance section and just shake my head when I look at the different books, particularly the ones with BDSM themes.   A certain series of books about a psychotic billionaire and an awkward girl really started some stuff.   As I was looking at the books I thought about some texts I got from my friend “Roger” that morning.

              I first talked about Roger (not his real name) in my “Do The Work” blog entry from a while ago.   Anyway knowing him he was just finishing his morning workout after a night of doing the Lord’s Work with a now blissed out woman.   For those who don’t know the term “Lord’s Work” is a code term  we use in our circle for taking a woman to a higher level of sexual bliss so that she sees Jesus, Allah, Jehovah, Shiva, Ausar, Galactus, the Great Pumpkin, or whatever deity she  chooses to worship.  Seriously though, sacred sexuality is indeed a spiritual path for some.   Now I might have to do a book on that.   

            Anyways, Roger texted me asking if I ever watched a show called Four Weddings where women judge each other weddings and the winner gets some type of grand prize.   His point was how these shows get women into some type of fantasy land.   He wrote, “What’s really telling is listening to the ‘grown’ women, they sound like a 13 year old.”   The texts back and forth made me think of the whole issue of romantic illusions and how they affect relationships.   I touched on the issue in my blog “The Reality of Chasing Mr. Goodbar.”   I need to get deeper into this issue because the reality is that women and quite frankly many men as well are chasing romantic fantasies and are missing out of fulfilling relationships.   

            With women it’s more obvious.  Many women are chasing Mr. Goodbar or the Masked Man.  Really what they are doing is chasing that perfect man.   They are chasing men that match a romantic ideal   Mr. Goodbar comes closest to it naturally.   They will have the looks, charisma, and are challenging enough to  turn women on.   The heroes in the romance novels are typically Alpha Males or Bad Boys where the big deal is a woman getting one of these men to fall for them.  In real life women are the real hunters.  Their game though is to draw men to them.   Romance novels play on that subliminal desire.   Only thing in real life, true Alpha Males are “my way or the highway” type of guys who will only deal with a woman on their terms or not at all.   Any successful relationship will require some type of compromise on the part of both parties.   In real life Bad Boys are just that: bad.   It may make a nice novel or romantic movie where a Bad Boy shows his sensitive side to the heroine and at the end declares his undying love.  The reality is that the Bad Boy will likely leave the woman scarred for life.  

            The media is screwing up a lot of women’s heads.  There are women out here rejecting decent men who love and support them for no other reason than he didn’t bring them a certain type of flower or the box of chocolates wasn’t big enough.   Many women will throw the baby out with the bath water.   Then they’ll get with the player who does all the romantic things but then when it’s time for the player to stand up and be a man such as when there is a family emergency and the woman needs real support, the player disappears.  Another scenario is when the woman marries the romantic man then discovers she is dealing with a little boy.   She didn’t gain a husband she got a son.  

            These issues are going to continue for the simple reason that the romantic illusions form a major part of the economy.   There is a lot of money to be made.   Straight up I’ve thought about learning how to write a romance novel because that’s a big industry.   There are mediocre writers from a technical point view who have become millionaires from writing romance.   Don’t get me started on the movie industry.   I’ll use one example from the movies, Tyler Perry.  Now a lot of people focus on the Medea character which in my view isn’t the main appeal of his movies.   Nor is it the Christian themes.   The main appeal of a Tyler Perry movie is that you will have a woman that made some unfortunate choices in life have a light-skinned blue collar pretty boy fall in love with her and he is willing to go through some crap to get with her even to the point of saving her from the evil chocolate professional brotha. (See Note)  

            Now I can’t let the men off the hook.   Even though women with romantic illusions is obvious to any thinking human being, the reality is that many men suffer from the same issue.  As far as I know there aren’t any romance novels that caters to a men’s desire but there are many examples in the media of average men with hot wives going back to the Honeymooners.   Alice was fine.  How she end up with Ralph Kramden?   That’s a very common theme in television and movies.   You have the ugly or out of shape man with the hot sexy wife.   Just like women are influenced by romantic literature and movies, men have been influenced for generations by this imagery.    To the point that it can be very traumatic for a man to truly realize that yes looks MATTER to a woman.   Now a woman can get past looks depending on what else the man is bringing to the table but unless that man has some serious sexual skills that he manages to communicate to the woman, in most cases the average woman will reject a man just on looks.   Even in cases where the man is spending money on her she will try to limit physical contact.   The women who choose money over looks are usually sugar babies.   Even a sugar baby will sleep with a man for free if he is good looking to her.  Ask me how I know.

            One community that takes advantage of men’s romantic illusions is the PUA Community which quite frankly is more of an industry led by many men and some women who have a general message of telling average to ugly men that with the proper training they too can seduce the extremely beautiful and sexy women.   I will give the industry props for helping men to develop social skills which are needed.   There are some realities that are not dealt with though.  Too many men, regardless of how they look, think that some words and actions will cause a woman to feel attraction for them.   Then when they fail they are ready to blame the instructors calling them scam artists or the women for being flaky with issues.   The women just aren’t attracted to them physically and all the words, money, and status is not going to change that.   Let me share the REAL reason why many of these men fail with women.

            Often when men go to clubs or walking down the street they will see these hot, sexy women.   They approach them with lines or their wallets out trying to impress these women.  They fail miserably unless they run into a sugar baby.   See the men are only seeing the surface of these women.   They are seeing the woman wearing that short dress with the perky breasts, flat stomach, “dat ass,” and toned legs.   What many of these men don’t see is what the women did to get those tight bodies.   These women with these tight bodies usually spend hours in the gym.   Very, very FEW women can maintain a tight body without working out or engaging in a physical activity.   Indeed in talking with some very hot women over the years I would find out they were jocks in high school.   If not jocks they had been into dance which requires the same discipline as any sport.   These women DID THE WORK for their bodies.   Let me share something.

            The gym I go to has a lot of hot young women who are either jocks or cheerleaders.   My workout is about an hour or two.   There are many young women who have already worked out a good sweat by the time I get there and even when I finish a long workout they are still pushing.   They don’t play either.  The gym I go to has Smith Machines that are used for bench pressing and squats.   When I go to the gym young women will be lined up to do squats on the Smith Machine.   One petite young girl was ready to cut me when I was about to jump on the machine to do bench presses and she wasn’t finished doing squats.  I kid you not.  

            So these women are pushing their bodies to be as fit as possible.   Why would they be turned on by a man who doesn’t put in the same effort to stay in shape?   One thing the Alphas and the Bad Boys will have is above average body builds.

              GAME!

            Back on the main topic, men and women need to start dealing with reality.   I know a young lady who broke this down for me.   By her own admission she is a six.   She’s a real cool Plain Jane who has no problem with men even very attractive ones.   I asked her secret and she said, “Rom, I’m easy and I bring the beer.”   She has no romantic notions about men.   Many women though are in their forties and fifties still looking for a man to sweep them off their feet.   I’m reminded of a passage in The Autobiography of Malcolm X:

            All of that Hollywood stuff!  Like these women wanting men to pick them up and carry them across thresholds and some of them weigh more than you do.  I don’t know how many marriage breakups are caused by these movie and television-addicted women expecting some bouquets and kissing and hugging and being swept out like Cinderella for dinner and dancing – then getting mad when a poor, scraggly husband comes in tired and sweaty from working like a dog all day, looking for some food.

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            Women are passing up decent men because they are not the most romantic but want these same men when the rest of life is kicking their ass.  

            Men are passing up decent women because regardless of what they look like they feel because they make a little bit more money than the average man they should have the top tier women.   Then want to know what happened when that sugar baby has emptied half their back account.

            Let me end with this observation.   The happiest couples I have seen in my life are not extremely beautiful.   Even when I have seen two beautiful people together they don’t always look happy.   Some of the happiest couples I’ve seen are physically homely and out of shape.   Thing is they are homely and out of shape with each other.   Even when the happy couples weren’t homely they shared the same subculture.  One time I was doing a seminar and there was a Goth couple there and my seminar was on finding the right mate.   To get deeper a person’s right mate will generally be the person they would be if they were born the opposite sex.   For example, a macho, assertive man as a woman would be submissive and alluring.   When I said that everybody looked at the Goth couple and started smiling.   The Goths themselves gave me that head nod that told me they agreed with me.   See many people are just realistic about who they are and who they can attract and they are good with it.   They don't have unrealistic romantic expectations.

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       A big issue particularly in  Black relationships and also in any non-white racial and ethnic group is that of colorism.   The issues facing chocolate complexioned Black women have been well discussed such as in the documentary Dark Girls.    What is not as addressed is that many of  the men Black women will classify as Mr. Goodbar will tend to be light complexioned with less coarse hair, "good hair."   A popular archetype in urban communities is a light complexioned pretty boy with tattoos and long hair either in a bushy pony tail or braided.     Though some more chocolate celebrities are promoted as ideal (Idris Elba or Denzel Washington) the reality is that the light skin player has never really gone out of style.   Like many things it hasn't been talked about publically because of an atmosphere of political correctness.   Young players know what works though.   The issue of colorism is something beyond the scope of this blog which in the final analysis is simply the viewpoints of this writer.   Something of this scale requires a more academic approach  complete with field studies, Ph.D. level research, and numerous footnotes.   Though I am academically qualified to do such a project it's not something that I can give the proper time and attention that it deserves.
   

   

              

   

   

 
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