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A Woman's True Desire

11/2/2014

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            It seems nearly every week there is a story in the media about a female teacher getting into trouble for having sex with a male student.   I’m not going to get into whether the sex is right or wrong.  My only position is that it happens.   For every incident that is reported in the media there are hundreds that are happening every day.   For many young teenaged boys having sex with a hot teacher is a fantasy.   Now what’s interesting about the women who get caught is that when you look at their pictures you can’t help but think that they can get a handsome man with money.  Indeed many of these women will have husbands or at least boyfriends.   Like many things there is more to this issue of older women having sex with younger boys.   We have to go deeper on this one.

            I’m going to be honest with y’all.  I don’t personally see the big deal.   Older women going for young teenaged boys has been happening for a very long time.   When I was a teenager I had brief relationships with a couple of women older than me.  Even when I was in my early twenties I attracted the attention of older women.   One even “kidnapped” me.  Actually that happened a couple of times.  Yeah, that’s yet another book.  Anyway what was telling was not so much I attracted these women but what I had going on for me at the time.

            During my teenaged years and early twenties women probably didn’t see me as Mr. Goodbar.   I was nerdier in my appearance and demeanor.   I still had some cool points to me but I didn’t have the muscles or the fly clothes.   I used to wear these big glasses that covered half my face.   I definitely didn’t use what some would consider game.   Yes I could approach women and talk to them with ease but in each case these older women approached me.  I didn’t have money or status.  I didn’t even have a car.  I really hadn’t grown into my looks.  One older woman said I needed to lose that “baby fat” around my face.   Apparently the baby fat didn’t stop her from kissing me.  The way my overall presentation was at the time I shouldn’t have got any attention, let alone the attention of sexy older women.   At least according to conventional wisdom.  That’s another thing, the women I got attention from were the slim to shapely women who could easily get better looking men with money.   Some of them did have men.  

            Now someone reading this will either say I had some type of game or I’m lying.   I’m doing neither.   Think about something with these teachers getting with younger boys.   We can expand that to include older women who will have sex with their young neighbor who cuts their grass.   All mothers who have teenaged boys KNOW exactly who the cougars are in their neighborhoods.   Fuck the politically correct convo let’s get into some raw game here.   Women know how other women are and though they may not call other women on their bullshit in public forums or social media they know how some get down.   A normal mother is going to be protective of her baby boy and can take one look at a friendly neighbor and know the woman is already scheming on her son.   Many men think they know game.  Women are the game.   That’s why I have little sympathy when a woman says a man played them.    All that happened was that a man outplayed them at their own game.   Let me get off this tangent though.

            Here’s the thing.   There is too much misinformation floating around out there with regards to women’s sexuality and their desires.    The biggest single problem is that too many men believe that women don’t want to have sex as much as men.   One of the reasons for this the influence of Abrahamic religions on most of the world particularly Christianity and Islam.    Both religions fairly suppress a woman’s sexuality, especially some strains of Islam.   The Christian West is only a little bit better.    The views about a woman’s sexuality affect the overall culture of a society to the point where even if someone is an atheist their sexual views still reflect those of religious practioners.    Bottom line is that many men don’t understand a woman’s sexual nature.  

            A WOMAN’S SEXUAL DESIRE IS GREATER THAN A MAN’S.

            During the act of actual sexual intercourse the overwhelming majority of men according to published reports and private conversations with women are minute men.    A man who can go twenty minutes is actually extraordinary.  The average time is around seven minutes.   The average man once he has sex regardless of the time has to rest once he has ejaculated.    Women on the other hand can go for hours.   Not only can they go for hours but they can do so with multiple partners.    Let’s get raw.

            There are women out there who have had “trains” run on them.    For those who didn’t grow up in an urban environment, “running a train” is when a woman will have sex with multiple men one after the other.   In some cases these are gang rapes.   I’m not talking about that heinous crime.   I’m talking about cases where a woman will CONSCIOUSLY take on multiple partners.   There are even videos on amateur porn sites which show a woman having a train run on her.    Not saying it’s right or wrong, it just is.   The bottom line is that the average woman can have sex for hours.   Now the average woman isn’t going to be inclined to have a train run on her, but she will at least have a strong desire to be sexually satisfied.    So what does this have to do with older women going after younger boys?

            On a basic level the women are looking for satisfying sex.   The most important sexual skill for a man is simply duration.   When a woman is evaluating the sexual worthiness of a man one of the main things she is looking for is whether he can last long.    The one thing the teenaged boy brings to the table is vitality.   Just like a girl is at her sexual peak as a teenager the boy is at his sexual peak.   When it comes to sex women aren’t tripping over money.   Money doesn’t mean anything once the clothes comes off and two people are in the act of sexual intercourse.   So a man makes a million dollars and owns two luxury cars and a big house.  Sexually a woman wants to know if he can keep a firm stroke up for 30 minutes preferably longer.   Many men with money and status can’t do this.   Many trophy wives have affairs.

            Even a man with a handsome face and muscular body may not turn on many women.   Let me clarify this because I know this statement may seem to contradict much of what I write.   In GENERAL a man will get more attention from women with handsome face and muscular body.   If a man is having trouble with women the smartest thing for him to do is change his facial grooming and either put on muscles or lose weight.   That doesn’t always seal the deal though.   There are plenty of handsome, muscular men out there who don’t attract the number of women sexually someone thinks they would.   At best these men may get a wife or girlfriend who will still cheat on them or maybe a sidepiece or two.   The men who may have ten or more women in rotation are not always the most handsome or muscular.

            Many men out there use what they consider “game” to get women.   Let’s keep it one hundred.   Women see through a man’s games.   What men learn through a book, website or seminars women have been learning since they were babies.   That baby girl learned that when she cried or laughed a certain way this big person she would eventually call daddy would respond to her.   That’s where the manipulation started.   Then she watches her mother manipulate men for different things.   As she grows up she finds that if she dresses and behaves a certain way boys will do things in her favor.   My point is that any game a man has pales in comparison to a woman’s games.   Women see through a man’s games but play along because of lack of options.   Gamesmen are not the Goodbars and Masked Men that women want.   Women see these men as lames, clowns, or even simps.   An irony is that these men think they are on top of the game.    Men like this can only win by wearing a woman down.   A very significant number of women are not with the man they want to be with but rather the man who was the most persistent in chasing them.  

            What women ultimately want is the man or in many cases who is most sexually desirable to them.   That man is not always going to be the best looking or most muscular.   He may not have money or status.   In the case of teenaged boys, he will not have enough life experience to have that thing called game.   What women will look for is that man who looks like he can satisfy them in the bedroom.  The man or boy who looks like he can fuck will beat out the money man, the pretty boy, the muscle head, and the gamer.  

            I challenge anyone to show me otherwise.

 

 

2 Comments
Jeff
11/2/2014 12:44:37 pm

Women desire sex as much as the men. There are even stories and passages in the Bible to back that up.

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Aaron MaK
10/23/2020 04:27:08 pm

You're on point
Teenage boys don't ejaculated ontil they reach puberty, secondly those old women know that they were the one that would be in charge cause the boy know nothing and not like full grown man that would take charge and last few minutes on top of them. So they know that if they managed to seduce those young boys they will be the controller not the boy and when in control she will be the one end the sexual act between her and the boy once her desires has been fulfilled.

Mr Rom by analysing this blog of yours. only thing I noticed about male and female sexual intercuse is that the selfish one is the controller, the person in charge.

In my first comment before this, i said women her selfish in all aspect including on sex but this blog makes me fully understand why women always appear as selfish. The truth here is that women are not the selfish one but men because they are the controller incharge in what ever they both engage them self in and it also apply to their sexual intercuse so like those women that sleep With young boys. Those women are selfish because they are the one in control and the boy is passive and follow her lead and when the woman as fully satisfied her lust she end sex.

In contrary to fully grown man and woman relationship men are the main controller and women are passive one and follow men's lead in any act they engage them self and what usually cause problem is that both of them whare mature and is not a deal between a kid and adult so both of them know what is sup and if one of them is fully certified and the other is not. there will be problem because his or her partner is not certified, so when a man is having sex with woman and got tired after 3 round end sex. It shows that the man is fully certified that's why he end the sexual intercuse and as 2 grown adult he suppose to ask his partner maybe she's fully certified like him and the major problems is that meny men don't care and once they are certified sex end

And ultimate solution for those men that last few minutes is to let women take charge when they are tired by given them chance to take a ride by them self and by doing that they would be able to replenish their energy and go back to position. Even though what most men do not know is that women also love to take charge. They also want to use aggression to ride the hard dick as men use dick to pound their pussy and that's only way they also gained control cause they know amount of pressure the need on their pussy and men are quickly tired on sex does not mean they can't still certified their woman by other means that is less stress,oral, use their hand or easiest means to make women cum 5 time's in a minute "viberator". the real problem of this men is that they are selfish and lazy and don't seek improvement.

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